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This blog is part of a four part series that looks back on the lecture Family & Finance Mediation 1st gave in the (FMC) Family Mediation Council’s Family Mediation Week 2025. The lecture focus was on the importance of Child Inclusive Mediation, and the benefits it can bring to families going through separation. In this first part, we explore what children gain from Child Inclusive Mediation (CIM)
Giving Your Children a Voice: The Benefits of Child Inclusive Mediation
Going through a separation or divorce is tough on everyone, especially your children. At Family and Finance Mediation 1st, we believe it’s important to help families navigate this difficult time in a way that minimises conflict and prioritises the well-being of all involved, particularly the children. That’s where Child Inclusive Mediation (CIM) comes in.
What is Child Inclusive Mediation?
Child Inclusive family Mediation is a process that allows your children to share their thoughts and feelings with a trained mediator in a safe, neutral environment. It’s not about putting them in the middle of your separation or asking them to make decisions. Instead, it’s about giving your child a voice in the mediation process and helping you understand their perspective.
How Does Child Inclusive Family Mediation Benefit My Children?
- Feel Empowered: Child Inclusive Mediation gives your children the chance to express their needs and wishes without feeling pressured or caught in the middle. This can be incredibly empowering, especially during a time when they may feel like they have little control over their lives. Knowing their voice matters and you are listening to the voice of your child can boost their confidence and help them feel more secure.
- Gain Understanding: Child Inclusive Mediation helps you understand how your children are really coping with the separation. Sometimes, children might struggle to express their feelings directly to their parents. A neutral mediator can help them open up and share their worries and concerns. This gives you valuable insights into their emotional well-being and helps you make informed decisions that consider their needs.
- Feel Prioritised: Children’s involvement in mediation puts their well-being front and centre. By listening to their perspectives, you can make arrangements that minimise disruption and provide stability during this challenging transition. This focus on your children’s best interests can help reduce the negative impact of the separation and foster a more positive co-parenting relationship.
- Experience Cooperation: Child Inclusive Family Mediation encourages a more cooperative approach to parenting. By involving your children in the process, you and your ex-partner are more likely to work together to find solutions that benefit everyone. This can lead to reduced conflict, better communication, and a more supportive environment for your children as they adjust to their new family dynamic.
Is Child Inclusive Mediation Right for My Family?
If you’re looking for a way to support your children through your separation and ensure their voices are heard, Child Inclusive Mediation could be a valuable option. It’s a voluntary process, and your children can choose whether or not they want to participate.
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If you’re thinking about Family Mediation, Child Inclusive Mediation or just want to know more about your options, we’re here to help. Get in touch by calling us at 0330 33 22 488 or emailing familyandfinancemediationfirst.co.uk
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